This is the question most females ask themselves and others....this is the question which intrigues the masculine sex too and they are more eager than the females to know the answer for obvious reasons.
Every girl has her own definition of perfection that she looks for in a guy but there are some common traits....
1. A guy has to be attractive...that doesnt necessarily mean his features...he has to be well dressed...well groomed....well mannered and whatever other well he can manage to enhance the package.
Trust me if facial features were the real attraction then Shahrukh Khan would not have so many female admirers...they love the Raj who helps Simran and finally comes all the way to get her and wins everyones heart in DDLJ.......they love the Rahul who is a perfect gentleman throughout in DTPH and the sensitive and emotional guy in KKHH.....
2. The guy has to be smart and by that I mean he has to be smart in every way...he should know what to do when and not only grab the attention of the lady but keep it for the rest of the evening...
3. He should know when to clip his tongue and shut up because contrary to what most guys think girls really dont get impressed by braggadocios...and even if you are helt bent upon revealing what model of car you drive....what a sportsman you are...how much money you have...how intelligent you are considered etc etc please be subtle and try to keep it short
4.Respect women as a general rule beacuse if you are making fun of some other female in front of your girl then your image is on a downslide but also remember to agree with her when she has to say some nasty things about some female she is pissed with
5.Try to listen more and talk less beacuse even though she might be laughing at all your jokes...she is seething inside because you are not letting her talk and girls as a general rule want to talk and talk......
6. Try to be understanding and sensitive because girls are just not different from guys they are like chalk and cheese....they think ,act and do things differently and if you are sensitive enough they will not only confide in you but also let you be in charge and thats the way to win over a woman.
Now why do I know all these things???....because I am a girl too and luckily have found all these things and more in my darling husband who has everything that takes to be perfect.
God Bless you sweetheart...Remain the same and I will love you forever....Touchwood!!! :)))
I find this thought of perfect guy somewhat absurd... I mean why can't girls appreciate human imperfections... I am a human being and i am imperfect... as they say in sufi tradition 'muqammal uski zaat hai, insaan to gunah ka putla hai'
ReplyDeleteno offence to the previous commenter but i dont think the "idea" of a perfect guy is absurd..but one must realise the perfect guy or girl exists only in an ideal scenario..does that mean it does not exist in real world??, no it can, it has & it will be present.i have seen some myself..the point is the idea of perfect guy or girl is relative u must look for someone who is "perfect for u". a perfect guy for u might not be the perfect guy for someone else and as rightly pointed above humans are imperfect,but if u can love a person beyond his flaws and imperfections he is the perfect guy for u...
ReplyDeleteI also agree withe points u listed...but not all guys though know these wont practice it, because Guys will be Guys :P
i know ur G is exception and i am very happy for u :)
I totally agree with M.J guys though know all these wont practice it and i totally agree with all the points Ruchi has listed. she has clearly mentioned all the points a girl looks in a guy and not missed even one of them...
ReplyDeletePerfect guys do exist.... It's just that the one you meet might not be perfect for you.... And so it might take sometime for us to find us our kind of guy....
M glad that you found yours..... :)
keep smiling the way you are.. and keep rocking.....
Nice post ...loved it...
happy blogging :)
@ Pushpendu....idea isnt absurd pal atleast not for romantics like me and girls do accept imperfections....and why cant be girls like this or like that is an age old question and girls can ask u the same :))
ReplyDelete@M.J thanx macha....spot on..bt guys if dont want to remain single for long and want lasting commitment will have to work hard :))
@Neha...thanx sweetheart :))
@ruchi...hehehehe i am one of the hard working guys :P
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